Monday, December 13, 2010
I am facing a similar difficult task now. One that is proving to be quite challenging. My Grandpa has asked each of his children and grandchildren to bring an ornament to Christmas this year. This ornament should hold some memory of our Grandma. It can be new, old or handmade, all that is required is that it represents my Grandma. I am not exaggerating when I say that this one request has been occupying my mind ever since he asked me.
I walked through Target last night intending to find a tree skirt. Instead, I wandered over to the ornaments section analyzing each ornament and trying to find how it would exemplify Grandma. And I found myself wanting. None of the ornaments show her kind heart and gentle spirit. There was no single ornament that would convey just how warm a hug from Grandma could be. Her cheerful laugh and smile could not be reduced to a hanging bauble.
It's hard to wrap my mind around a Christmas without her. She has always, always been there. Every piano recital, every speech, every play, every birthday, she was there. Maybe that is why this task is so hard to accomplish. I don't want to think about the fact that this Christmas she won't be there. I trust that she is praying for us. I feel it. And I find comfort in knowing that the physical pain she endured these last couple years is over.
No matter what ornament I choose, I know that she will love it. And when we all gather to hang our ornaments on the tree and explain what each one means, I believe that she will be present with us.